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  • Writer's picturePaty Cholewczynski

The Ultimate Guide to Waxing: Dos, Don'ts, and Special Tips for Intimate Waxing



Waxing is a popular method for hair removal, offering longer-lasting results compared to shaving. To ensure a smooth and effective experience, it's essential to follow certain guidelines before and after your waxing session. This comprehensive guide will walk you through the dos and don'ts of waxing, with a special section dedicated to intimate waxing.


General Waxing: Dos and Don'ts


Before Waxing:

  1. Grow Your Hair Out: Ensure your hair is at least 1/4 inch long (about the size of a grain of rice).

  2. Exfoliate Gently: A day or two before your appointment, use a gentle exfoliator to remove dead skin cells. This helps prevent ingrown hairs and allows for better wax adherence. Avoid exfoliating on the day of your appointment.

  3. Avoid Sun Exposure: Stay out of direct sunlight and avoid tanning/tanning beds for at least 72 hours before waxing to prevent inflammation hyperpigmentation, skin sensitivity, and/or sunburn.

  4. Hydrate and Avoid Stimulants: Drink plenty of water, and limit your caffeine and alcohol intake on the day of your appointment as they can increase skin sensitivity.

  5. Communicate with Your Wax Specialist: Inform your esthetician about any allergies, skin conditions, or medications you are taking to tailor the waxing process to your needs and avoid skin lifting or sensitivities.

  6. Avoid Retinoids and AHAs: Discontinue the use of retinoids and AHA products on your face about 4 days before your waxing session to avoid increased sensitivity.

  7. Maintain Cleanliness: Arrive fresh and cleansed to your appointment. Natural oils, sweat, or body lotions can prohibit wax from adhering well. Think of it as prepping for your annual exam at the gynecologist.

  8. Avoid Booking a Spray Tan: Do not book a spray tan before or on the same day as waxing. The spray tan solution might irritate the skin, seep into open pores, making it look like blackheads, or make the skin appear uneven.


After Waxing:

  1. Avoid Heat: Steer clear of hot baths, saunas, and steam rooms for at least 24 hours post-waxing to prevent irritation and hyperpigmentation.

  2. Wear Loose Clothing: Opt for loose, breathable fabrics to reduce friction and irritation on freshly waxed skin. Cotton fabrics are ideal.

  3. Skip Heavy Workouts: Avoid intense exercise that causes excessive sweating for at least 48 hours to prevent clogged pores and breakouts.

  4. Moisturize Regularly: Keep your skin hydrated with a gentle, fragrance-free moisturizer to aid in the healing process.

  5. Avoid Exfoliation: Wait at least 48 hours before resuming exfoliation to give your skin time to recover. Exfoliation should be performed 48 hours after to prevent ingrown hairs.


Special Tips for Intimate Waxing


Before Your Brazilian or Bikini Wax:

  1. Let Your Hair Grow: Ensure your pubic hair is long enough (about 1/4 inch) for the wax to grip properly, but not more than 1/2 inch.

  2. Exfoliate Carefully: Use a gentle scrub to exfoliate the area a day or two before your appointment. This helps remove dead skin cells and prevents ingrown hairs.

  3. Consider Pain Management: You might take an over-the-counter pain reliever about 30 minutes before your session.

  4. Wear Comfortable Underwear: Choose cotton underwear on the day of your wax to minimize irritation and wear loose clothing.

  5. Limit Caffeine Intake: Caffeine stimulates the nervous system and can increase sensitivity. Try to limit your intake on the day of your waxing service.

  6. Avoid Booking Before an Event: Don't book your first time waxing session the day before a big event or vacation. Your skin might be red and sensitive afterward, so it's best to allow about 4-5 days for recovery.


After Your Brazilian or Bikini Wax:

  1. Avoid Sun and Heat: Keep away from direct sunlight, tanning beds, saunas, hot yoga, and hot showers for at least 48 hours to prevent irritation.

  2. Skip Intense Activities: Avoid activities that cause excessive sweating and friction, such as vigorous exercise and sexual activity, for at least 24 hours. If the skin still feels irritated, wait another 24 hours.

  3. Moisturize and Soothe: Use a gentle, fragrance-free moisturizer to keep the area hydrated. Aloe Vera or witch hazel can also help soothe the skin.

  4. Avoid Swimming: Avoid public water like swimming pools, and especially large bodies of water (like an ocean, lake, or river) that could contain bacteria for a few days.

  5. Don't Pick at Ingrown Hairs: If you develop ingrown hairs, resist the urge to pick at them. Instead, gently exfoliate the area and use a topical treatment designed for ingrown hairs.


Tips for Accutane Users

If you are on Accutane or have recently completed a course of Accutane, it's crucial to take extra precautions when considering waxing:


  1. Avoid Waxing: Accutane can make your skin more sensitive and prone to tearing/lifting. It's generally advised to avoid waxing while on Accutane and for at least six to nine months after completing the treatment. The longer your Accutane treatment, the longer the period you will have to wait before having waxing done. Informing your esthetician of this information is crucial!

  2. Consult with Your Dermatologist: Before scheduling a waxing appointment, consult with your treating dermatologist to ensure it's safe to proceed.


FAQ: Tips to Minimize Discomfort

Minimizing discomfort during a waxing session is a common concern. Here are some tips to help make your waxing experience more comfortable:


  1. Choose the Right Time: Schedule your waxing appointment when you're not overly sensitive, such as during or right before your menstrual cycle. Your pain threshold can vary at different times of your cycle.

  2. Exfoliate Beforehand: Gently exfoliate the waxing area a day or two before your appointment. This helps remove dead skin cells, allowing the wax to adhere better to the hair.

  3. Avoid Caffeine and Alcohol: Skip caffeine and alcohol on the day of your appointment. These substances can increase sensitivity and make the process feel more uncomfortable.

  4. Breathe and Relax: Deep breathing and relaxation techniques can help ease tension and discomfort during the session.

  5. Communicate with Your Waxing Specialist: Let your waxing specialist know if you have any concerns or specific areas of sensitivity. They can adjust their technique to make the process as comfortable as possible for you. Talk to your doctor before coming in for waxing because bleeding can happen, and some medications do not mix with waxing.

  6. Regular Waxing: With regular waxing, you'll likely notice reduced discomfort over time as the hair becomes finer and the follicles weaken.

  7. Choose an Experienced Professional: Opt for a skilled and experienced waxing professional who can minimize discomfort through proper technique and speed.

  8. For Care-Free Summers: Consider booking regular waxing appointments. Waxing regularly during fall and winter will weaken the hair follicle over time. This can cause your hair to grow thinner, which makes it less painful to wax in the long run. Over time, your waxing sessions will hurt less, and you might even be able to go longer between waxing because your hair will grow at a much slower rate.


Remember, discomfort during waxing is temporary and often outweighed by the benefits of smooth skin. Keeping a regular waxing routine will help reduce discomfort as the hair root becomes weaker and the hair becomes sparse and thin. Your waxing specialist is there to make the experience as pleasant as possible, so don't hesitate to communicate your needs and preferences.


By following these dos and don'ts, you can ensure a more comfortable and effective waxing experience. Proper preparation and aftercare are key to achieving smooth, beautiful skin while minimizing discomfort and irritation.


Hope you find this information helpful, if you know someone that might benefit from learning this information, feel free to share the link to this blog post.


Paty C.

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